At 19, my best friend and I made a promise about turning 60; then my landline phone rang.

This one didn’t.

I didn’t want to ruin it.

“Ruth,

Margaret and I are getting married. The ceremony is in August.”

I sat at our kitchen table staring at the sentence. I kept reading.

My best friend told me the wedding would be small and Margaret’s family was helping them get settled.

Then I reached the bottom. There was one more thing.

Jeffrey asked me not to contact him again.

I kept reading.

He said Margaret knew how close we’d been and that he wanted

to give his marriage a fair start. Jeffrey said our friendship mattered too much to him to let it become something that hurt someone else.

Then he wrote:

“I hope you have a wonderful life, Ruthie.

I’m sorry.

Jeffrey.”

I cried for weeks.

But I respected his choice. I didn’t write back, call, or try to see him.

Margaret knew

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