My late son’s best friend turned up at his funeral in a dress — my husband was already on his feet to walk him out

And then he put it down and waited four minutes for i am, promise.

And five days later I went down that road and made sure the answer was no.

And I did not know about the dare. Nobody told me, and there is no reason anybody should have.

And I have spent fourteen months saying that — I didn’t know, nobody told me — and it is true, and it is also what you say.