“I didn’t want you to look at me with pity,” he confessed that October morning in 2004, voice hoarse. “I didn’t want our children to grow up seeing their father as damaged. I wanted you to love me the same way you did the day we got married.”
So every morning at 4 a.m., long before I woke up, he would treat his scars. He changed dressings, applied special creams, took pain medication, and did gentle stretching exercises the physical therapists had taught him. Over the decades, the
routine became sacred to him — his private way of shielding me from his suffering.
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I cried for hours that day. Not just for the pain he had carried alone, but for the years I had spent doubting him, imagining the worst.
“Richard Mitchell,” I whispered, touching his face, “you foolish, wonderful man. You didn’t protect me by hiding this. You only made me feel alone.”
