Sabine applied for the final order in the November and it came through in the January of 2026 and that marriage is over after nineteen and a half years.
Mine was declared void, which it always had been, and I have had a nullity decree, and there is financial provision because the court can do that — which I knew in the February of 2025, because Ruth told me, and which is a sentence I have had to say out loud to my own mother.
I knew there would be a remedy. It was on page two of her letter.
That is not the reason I went through with it. It is also not nothing.
My son was born on the second of March. Desmond is on the certificate and has parental responsibility and sees him on Saturdays, supervised at first and not any more, and he is not a bad father so far, which I did not expect.
