After the reunion, the returned child may understandably receive much of the family’s attention. Siblings might feel relieved but also overlooked, guilty about their own emotions, or uncertain about how to behave.
Parents can help
by creating opportunities for each child to speak privately and ask questions appropriate to their age. They should avoid sharing details that are unnecessary or unsuitable, while offering honest reassurance about what is known and what remains uncertain.
It is equally important not to expect siblings to become caregivers or emotional supporters for the returned child. They are children themselves and need space to continue their own routines, friendships, and activities.
Simple gestures can make a difference. Spending individual time with each child, maintaining familiar family traditions, and acknowledging everyone’s
feelings can help restore a sense of belonging.
The goal is not to give every family member identical attention at every moment. It is to ensure that nobody feels their emotional needs have become invisible.
